Your organs just need to be healthy, and to feel good to you: you feeling good to someone else is about WAY more than whatever state your body is in, and if to anyone it's not, they're the problem, not your body, okay?Īs far as your hymen goes, the hymen erodes slowly over time - just due to puberty, vaginal discharges and menstruation, physical activity - and that process can be sped up by masturbation and vaginal sex. So, even if there were any stock in all this loose-vagina mumbo-jumbo, or if there is a time later in your life when muscle tone is an issue (like after pregnancy), it's still nothing to get freaked out about. It's also always worth a reminder that the vagina isn't an object: it's an integral part of YOUR body, not something for someone else.
That would make no sense.įor the longer story on the lowdown on vaginas and "looseness" and "tightness," check out these answers and articles: While certainly, they can lose tone over time (usually just with aging and hormonal changes: not for a person your age), using that muscle - like using any muscle - increases tone, it doesn't cause a loss of tone. In other words, it goes back in a little bit to the same state it was in before those fingers were in there. When you take those fingers out, and aren't aroused anymore, your vagina is unchanged. How wide it is is about what is inside of it, and if three fingers inside you feels good during masturbation, that is just about you being aroused and relaxed (you might also notice that your vaginal muscles clench around less just as strongly). Instead, I'm just going to tell you that the short story is that the vagina, like your throat, isn't a hole that sits ever open. We get a LOT of questions about this whole vaginal "looseness" and "stretched out" baloney, so I won't go on at length here.
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